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November 1, 2018

Would we benefit from a prenup?

My fiancé and I are not particularly wealthy, but we are established professionals. Should we get a prenup? You and your fiancé would be wise to consider a prenuptial agreement, or “prenup” as it has come You and your fiancé would be wise to consider a prenuptial agreement, or “prenup” as it has come to be known. In fact, most, if not all, couples would benefit from a prenuptial agreement. Objections to getting a prenuptial agreement usually come in one of two categories. The first kind asserts that there is no pressing need for the contract: “We don’t have anything financial worth fighting over.” The second appeals to sentiment: “It ruins the romance to talk about money” or, even more wishful, “We’re sure we won’t get divorced.” While no one goes into a marriage planning to get divorced, even the most optimistic couple should acknowledge that divorce is a possibility. While the statistics vary, a good number of American marriages will end in their dissolution by divorce. The wise bride and groom will have to address this possibility on their way into matrimony, rather than deal with the consequences of exiting matrimony unprepared. Even if you have “nothing worth fighting […]
August 13, 2012

Visitation with grandparents, aunts, uncles, can they be supervised?

Additional Information: My husband and will be getting divorced.  We are amicable and have decided together that the children will live with me in our home in Framingham, and see their dad every other weekend and Wednesday nights.  My first question is: will a divorce attorney help us figure out a visitation schedule for grandparents and aunts/uncles who will want to see the kids?  Second, can I request that these visits be supervised by me? I want to be around because I worry that they will say negative things about me to the kids. ATTORNEY ANSWER: The first question is whether it is even a good idea to discuss a visitation schedule for grandparents and aunts and uncles who want to see the kids.  If you are that concerned about the welfare of the children that you feel the need to have supervised visits, why legislate that into the Separation Agreement?  You may be granting more rights to the extended relatives and responsibilities to yourself that may be unnecessary and burdensome.  The solution to the problem may be to have your divorce attorney negotiate a more liberal parenting plan with your husband so that he and his family can spend […]
July 30, 2012

When we divorce will my husband be awarded half this asset?

Additional Information: When my husband and I were engaged, I had finished business school and as a graduation present my parents gave me $50K to start my own business.  We got married, moved into a Boston Metrowest suburb and started a family right away.  My plans to start a business got put aside.  The money has been in a savings account.  Now we are getting divorced and he thinks he is entitled to half of this asset.  I have a card from my parents saying how proud they are of me and that they are gifting me the money to pursue my dreams of having my own company. Will my husband be awarded half this asset? ATTORNEY ANSWER: The question is whether the $50,000 which you received before you married is a marital asset that is subject to division, now that you are getting divorced.  Arguably, if you received the money before you married, that asset could be viewed as yours.  But the longer you are married, especially with children, there is a counter argument that all assets are part of the marital estate.  Therefore, the $50,000 might get split on a 50-50 basis, or any other percentage that you […]
January 12, 2012

Are grandparents’ visitation schedules written into the divorce agreement?

Additional Information: My husband and I are getting divorced after a 8 year marriage. We have 3 young children and have decided that that I will stay in our home in Natick, and that the children will primarily stay with me.  We haven’t figured out when they will stay with their dad and already both sets of grandparents are voicing their interests in time with the kids too.  Are grandparents’ visitation something that gets written into the divorce agreement? ATTORNEY ANSWER: The rights of grandparents to spend time with the children after a divorce can be problematic and depends upon the facts of each case.  Generally, the rights of the grandparents to spend time with their grandchildren is ancillary to the parenting rights of the parents.  Under Massachusetts law, however, the grandparents of an unmarried child may be granted reasonable visitation rights by the Probate Court when the parents are living apart under a temporary order or judgment of separate support, or following the divorce of the parents.  The grandparents may also have rights if the children, who are born out of wedlock, do not live together but the paternity (of the paternal grandparents) has been established. 
January 5, 2012

When we divorce will my husband be entitled to half of gifted money to me that we put toward our house?

Additional Information: When my husband and I got married, we eloped  instead of a having a big expensive wedding.   My parents were all for it and gave me a sizable sum of money to put toward a down payment on our house in Framingham that we bought together in (about $35K).  I have just filed for divorce, and am wondering if my husband will be entitled to half of this asset? ATTORNEY ANSWER: Generally, an asset, such as the house will be included in the division of joint marital assets, if it was acquired during the marriage, even if your parents gave you the downpayment.  If this is a short term marriage with no children, then you might have a claim to a greater share of the asset but if it is a longer term marriage with kids and your husband has made a significant contribution to the principal, interest, taxes and insurance, then he might get half of the asset. You also need to determine how much you want the asset.  If you have only had the house for a short period of time, it might be better to let your husband to buy out your share of the […]
October 28, 2011

My soon-to-be-ex wife has assets hidden in her mother’s name.

Additional  Information: We are in the process of getting a divorce.  I just found out that my soon to be ex-wife has hidden assets in her mother’s name and within her mother’s accounts. How can I subpoena those accounts? I know the bank account #s and they are extensive assets.  If I can subpoena the bank records, can I get a postponement of the divorce date?  I imagine that when these hidden assets are brought forward, it will change a lot of the financial details. ATTORNEY ANSWER: The first question is what stage you are exactly in the divorce.  If you are in the early state of the divorce case, then your wife is required to provide all information about her mother’s bank accounts within the first 45 days of getting served with the Complaint.  This is required under Rule 410 of the Massachusetts Rules of Domestic Relations Procedure so it would not be necessary to subpoena the records.  If you are beyond the 45 days, the information can be obtained by a Request for Production of Documents and Interrogatories, drafted by your attorney.  Generally, your wife has 30 to 45 days to respond to responses to the Request for […]
October 13, 2011

My stepfather is abusive and kicked my mom out of her Framingham home. Can she get her home back?

Additional Information: My mother is filing for divorce after a 9 year marriage. My stepfather kicked her out of their Framingham house which she owned before they were married. My mom is disabled and he has been abusive and neglectful.  He wasn’t properly giving her medications and selling them instead, he threatened to take their 10 year old daughter and has made many other threats. All of this has been reported to the police. My mother is staying with me and my husband right now, as we fear he will hurt her. Will all of this be taken into consideration so she can she regain her home and custody of their child? ATTORNEY ANSWER: The first step that should be taken is for you to hire a forceful attorney and seek Temporary Orders to get your mother back into the Framingham house and to seek a 209A restraining order against your stepfather because of the emotional abuse, and/or physical  abuse, or threats of abuse.  This should be done immediately.  The 209A order can be obtained in the Middlesex Probate Court which has jurisdiction for Framingham.  The restraining order should seek relief that forces your step father to vacate the marital […]
October 6, 2011

Will I be entitled to any support after short term marriage?

Additional Information: I have been married for one month and am ready for a divorce. We got married because I am pregnant with his child. We rent an apartment in Natick.  He has some money in savings, I do not.  Am I entitled to anything? ATTORNEY ANSWER: You will be entitled to receive child support based upon the Massachusetts Child Support Guidelines.  The support is based upon your combined income with his.  You will become eligible to receive support when the baby is born, but not before.  Since the marital assets appear to be small because you rent and do not own your own home, your primary source of income from the divorce would be from child support, which would continue until the child is emancipated.  Emancipation occurs when the child reaches 18 years old and then moves out of the marital home and is working full time.  Alternatively, emancipaton occurs later after the child graduates from college, or reaches the age of 23, whichever happens first. One important factor that could change this is if the father wants primary physical custody, or shared physical custody with you.  In that event, the amount, if any, that he pays in child […]
July 19, 2011

In general, under MA law, how do I know if I can sue for damages?

MORE INFORMATION: I recently suffered an injury in a car accident on Route 9 in Framingham, MA.  The other driver was cited for speeding.  In general, under Massachusetts law, how do I know if I can sue for damages? ATTORNEY ANSWER: You have two claims.  The first is through your own automobile insurance policy, through PIP, which stands for Personal Injury Protection.  This will cover your out of pocket expense for medical bills, usually up to $2,000.00.  Then if you have health insurance, your medical bills in excess of $2,000.00 will be submitted to the health insurance carrier.  Any medical bill which is not covered by health insurance, gets covered again by PIP, up to another $6,000.00.  An exception to this is if you have Medical Payments coverage.  In that event, the medical bills will get submitted to Medical Payments coverage before getting submitted to the health insurance carrier, after the first $2,000.00 on PIP is exhausted.
June 29, 2011

Can the provisions of a divorce be changed after finalization?

ATTORNEY ANSWER: A divorce decree can always be modified with respect to child support and alimony.  There has to be a material change of circumstances, however, such as a loss of job, financial setbacks to a self-employed person in a difficult economy, or retirement, to justify a decrease in child support or alimony, for instance.  Conversely, the recipient may seek an increase in child support or alimony because of the needs of the children or a financial or health setback. The process to change a divorce decree is done through a Complaint for Modification, filed by the party who wants to make the change.  The other party then files an Answer and sometimes a Counterclaim.  Financial documents are then exhanged within 45 days after service of the Complaint and the parties can then begin the process of a negotiated settlement or litigate the case in the Probate Court. Although child support and alimony can be modified, the original property settlement usually “survives” the divorce judgment and is not incorporated into it.  In other words, the property settlement remains intact as a binding contract, unless the parties specify otherwise in the Separation Agreement.  One exception to this would be where there […]
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